Washington DC is typically the 4th most expensive place to get married in the country, behind New York City, Chicago, and San Francisco. I’ve even found that spreading out to Baltimore, Annapolis, Richmond or Charlottesville will not drastically change the cost of weddings. 

A good wedding planner will help an engaged couple identify the parts of the wedding that matter the most to them (a band or their invitations or the bar) and allocate the wedding budget accordingly. There is no one-size-fits-all budget break down, but I hope this can be useful to you. 

The most expensive item at your wedding is a guest. A guest will get a save the date and an invitation, plus paper goods on the wedding day. They need a seat at the ceremony and the reception. Their table at the reception needs a linen and a table setting and you will probably also a centerpiece. They will be eating and drinking on your dime for 4-6 hours. These are your variable costs. Every ten guests will cost you $1000-$2000 in variable costs. 

The wedding budget below based on Washington DC area weddings. 

    • Reception Items (39%)
    • Tent Items (31%)
    • Service Providers (18%)
    • Attire & Beauty (5%)
    • Stationery Items (4%)
    • Gifts (2%)
    • Legalese (1%)

sample at home wedding budget

Now that your at-home wedding budget is all set, it’s time to move on to the planning! Check out our Wedding Planning Timeline infographic!

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